Oh, my. This really, really resonates with me tonight. Especially this bit: Because I know in my heart of hearts that my family would correct me out of love and consideration and yes, kindness and respect.
It is *so* hard to criticize those we love that often, we'll go to almost any length to avoid it. But offering gentle correction, with love and respect is offering a real gift. Whether the person decides to accept that gift is up to them.
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Date: 2008-12-12 08:08 am (UTC)It is *so* hard to criticize those we love that often, we'll go to almost any length to avoid it. But offering gentle correction, with love and respect is offering a real gift. Whether the person decides to accept that gift is up to them.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts!